Philadelphia

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We got back late Tuesday night, after numerous delays, layovers, and weather problems. Philadelphia was very relaxing. We slept more than I've done in months, and enjoyed the balmy weather (warmer than it is here in the Bay - something's very wrong with that). Adam's mother's house is a bit of a zoo (in the good sense). In addition to two cats and a dog, there's a turtle that roams the house. Outside are numerous deer, squirrels, and 14 turkeys.

Baby the turtle and Jackson the dog

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Native Forest

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I've included this last picture of the backyard to show what a forest in Pennsylvania is supposed to look like (and did look like) - Adam's mom has diligently removed all of the non-native species of planets.

November 2006 Book Reviews

1. A Game of Thrones, George R.R. Martin, Rating: 4.3
Hayden recommended this book highly - he said that he was finding himself staying up for hours reading every night, unwilling to put it down. I should say that fantasy is not one of my usual genres, and yet I too found it fascinating. Not so much that I stayed up all night, but I do have the next one here in the house, and can't wait to crack it open. EPIC scope (think Lord of the Rings, with more characters), fully imagined settings, great heroes and villains (plus lots of people that could be either - only time will tell). It's really fun.
2. Special Topics in Calamity Physics, Marisha Pessl, Rating: 1.9
I absolutely loved the first 100 pages of this book. Pessl has a very clever way with words, and uses bibliographical references to describe people and events. It's very effective. The plot, and its strong parallels to Lolita, works well well the characters are on the road. When they stop, and the author is left to invent her own plot twists, everything falls apart. The Washington Post says it well: "But hunkering down for 514 pages of frantic literary exhibitionism turns into a weary business for the reader, who after much patient effort deserves to feel something stronger than appreciation for a lot of clever name-dropping and a rush of metaphors."
3. Altered Carbon, Richard K. Morgan, Rating: 4.2
Another book outside my normal genres - this time, science fiction. No aliens (thank goodness), but it is set in a future with habitation on multiple planets. Much to my surprise, I really, really liked this. It's set in San Francisco (a few hundred years in the future), has a great lead and several suitably villanous villains, and is packed with absolutely fascinating ideas about future technology. I can't say much without giving away the plot, but if you can handle some fairly aggressive, graphic violence, I'd recommend checking this out.
4. One Year Off: Leaving It All Behind for a Round-the-World Journey with Our Children, David Elliot Cohen, Rating: 2.9
There's not a lot I can say about this book that isn't covered in the subtitle. I saw this at the library and thought, "huh. That must have been interesting and difficult." And it was - for them. For us, the readers, it's kind of dull. Their kids are young - 3, 7, and 8 - and the trip was planned to make them happy. I love the idea of traveling for a year, but not just to places that interest a first grader.
5. The Last of Her Kind, Sigrid Nunez, Rating: 4.0
First of all, what a beautiful cover. I think it's just great, and perfect for the contents of the book. This story is told through the eyes of one woman, who's relating her own life, and those of the three women (her sister, her best friend, and her mother) who shaped her. With three younger women are all shaped by the civil rights movement and the 60s and 70s in general, but in very different ways. It's really fascinating.

Big Sur

Adam, his brother Wes, and I headed down to Big Sur over the holiday weekend. It didn't work out as planned (poor Wes got a stomach bug and we had to come home two days early), but was still worth the long drive. Could it possibly be more beautiful?

These next two are of our campsite. We were having awful luck - every campground we tried was sold out - and finally gambled on the last listing in our book, which was 11 miles inland, way up in the mountains. Along the way a local told us to take a dirt road to better options, and we ended up with a mountaintop to ourselves, and panoramic ocean views.

Touring San Francisco

Adam's mom is in town and requested we take this tour yesterday. Yes, it was kind of embarassing. And yes, Segways are really fun to ride. It was a gorgeous (if cold) day for it, with remarkably good visibility.

October 2006 Book Reviews

1. Getting Stoned with Savages, J. Maarten Troost, Rating: 2.9
Troost's greatest strengths are clearly 1) his willingness to seek out and live on far-flung islands, and 2) the ability to generate great book titles. His first travel memoir, The Sex Lives of Cannibals, came out a few years ago; this book was published in June. This book is even more of a disapointment than the first.
2. Lolita, Vladimir Nabokov, Rating: 4.2
Finally I've read this - it's been on my to-do list for years. I really liked it, and was completely surprised by the story. The prose is every bit as beautiful as you've heard, but the story was dark and meadering and manipulative. I expected "sexy," but there really isn't much about it that fits that description. I was surprised to learn that it was written originally in English - intentionally so, as Nabokov describes this as his "american novel."
3. Crawling, Elisha Cooper, Rating: 4.0
I've known Eli for years now - he published several books with Chronicle when I first started working there. He writes children's books primarily, and this is his first primarily prose book for adults. It's about his first year as a parent, and is also a tribute to his life in Berkeley (he now lives in Chicago). I thought it was funny and surprisingly candid.
4. The Master Butchers Singing Club, Louise Erdrich, Rating: 4.6
Thanks to my friend Elese, who gave me this book for my birthday. Based on the cover and the title, I would have never picked it up. It's full of interesting characters and has a sweeping, emotionally packed storyline. I don't want to give too much away about the story, except to say that the title isn't even accurate - there's just one butcher. It is correct to say that he sings, though.
5. The Road, Cormac McCarthy, Rating: 3.2
This rating is probably too low, but I feel uncomfortable recommending this novel to most people. It's DARK. Intentionally so (the main theme is the end of the world), but (having loved McCarthy's Blood Meridian) I was surprised by how tough this novel is. I read it almost entirely on the commuter train, because it was too creepy to read at home alone. That said, this is an incredibly well-done story and worth reading - if you can stomach it.

Halloween Costumes

I'm really pleased with this year's efforts. Of course, I didn't make anything last year, so it was certainly easier to top nothing. Here's the whole path of events:

In August, Adam requested a pair of white fur pants to wear to Burning Man (nighttime wear; it gets cold out there in the desert.) I've never made pants before, but it was surprisingly easy. Here's what a few yards of fabric and two hours will get you.

October rolls around. We still have about a yard leftover of what I've been referring to as "chicken fur." Adam has been prepairing for a major presentation, leaving me with way too much time on my hands. Inspiration struck on the train last week - a chicken costume!

The entire costume is a single piece of fabric with elastic bands at the top and the bottom. I wrapped a blanket and two towels around my waist and secured with a belt to create the bulk. The hat is also a simple tube, secured at one end. The red top is felt, sewn at the base.

Finally, here's Adam again. We added a pair of horns to turn his fuzzy pants into a satyr costume.

Our Camping Trip

I'm a week behind on my posting, but I couldn't resist getting a few of these up from my recent trip north. Adam and I are trying to get some use out of the ridiculously large car that he recently bought. It fits a queen-sized mattress along with quite a lot of gear and could probably sleep 4 in a pinch. Basically, a perfect camping car. We drove north to Sebastopol, then east through Occidental, finally landing at Bodega Dunes campground just outside of Bodega Bay. It was open studios weekend, so we lucked into a lot of great art - and the ability to snoop around on some pretty interesting estates. The Bonsai picture is from one of those houses. He had literally hundreds, many of which he had found in the surrounding hills.

We both loved it up there - so far Sebastopol is leading the hunt for our search for a place to move to when Adam finally graduates.

Dodgeball

Despite the fact that I work with "Creatives," there are occasional sporting events. Here's a picture of the Method team in action. It was actually really fun.

Lion Brand Crochet Box

I received a real, final copy of the Costco edition of my patterns last night! It's massive and just beautiful. Rumor has it that the kit will be in stores within the next week. I think this is going to be a great gift - it has 50 patterns (25 from my Crochet to Go Deck, 25 from Melissa Leapman's Cozy Crochet Kit), yarn, and instructional booklet, and several hooks. Adam and I are driving to Costco today to see if it's there yet.

The Interior

Here's a few samples of how the photography turned out. Gorgeous!

September 2006 Book Reviews

September was a truly exhausting month. It involved a cross-country trip (or at least mid-country), a birthday weekend getaway, 10+ hours of freelance work, and one complete house move, which was just completed last night. So very little reading. Here's what I managed to read on the commuter train:

1. Gramercy Park, Carole Klein, Rating: 3.9
I remember exactly when I got this book - while in summer school at NYU in 1999. It's been on my shelf ever since, waiting to be read. I had a vague idea that it was some sort of late nineteenth century work of american lit. That was completely wrong - it's actually a non-fiction history of the neighborhood in New York City. It's surprisingly compelling. The author essentially strings together a series of mini-biographies of famous New Yorkers who were in some way affiliated with the neighborhood. Definitely not for everyone, but I really enjoyed it.
2. Veronica, Mary Gaitskill, Rating: 3.4
I seem to see this book everywhere these days. It follows one woman along a trail of bad decisions through the '80s and '90s. AIDS and other related diseases feature prominently. The story is unique and thought-provoking. I'm not recommending it strongly, but it's definitely better than most contemporary fiction.
3. Cellophane, Maria Arana, Rating: 4.3
I am strongly recommending this one -- if you're a fan of magical realism. The story is completely fantastic, whimsical and sexy, at times hilarious. It's escapism at its best. I would strongly recommend this as a vacation read.
4. Cry, The Beloved Country, Alan Paton, Rating: 3.5
What a downer this book is. Purposefully so, clearly, and there's no denying it's extremely effective, but it's really sad.
As a side note, the intro is really interesting - Paton finished his manuscript in San Francisco and loaned it to a couple he had met on the train. They went to extraordinary lengths to get the book published - had found the publisher, had the manuscript typed (the whole thing in a matter of days - they worked around the clock), arranged all of Paton's meetings. All for a virtual stranger.
5. Mother Tongue, Bill Bryson, Rating: 4.1
This book has been on my list forever. My aunt has a copy on her shelf and I read a chapter or so whenever I'm over at her house. She recently took a nice long trip to Italy, which gave me enough time to finish it. While wikipedia takes issue with its level of accuracy, it's thought-provoking, raises innumerable interesting points, is full of conversation-starters, and it's often hilarious. Can we ask for much more from a book? The subject: the English language.
6. Pledged, Alexandra Robbins, Rating: 2.8
This book saved me on the never-ending flights to and from Chicago. The secret life of sororities - doesn't that say it all? Actually, it didn't really. While the book is definitely interesting, there are no secrets. No real opinions. No real facts, when you get right down to it. Just one writer with a good idea, and sloppy research techniques. There's definitely room for a more definitive book on the subject. This isn't to say that it's not entertaining - it is - but it leaves you wanting a lot more.

Chicago

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Adam and I made our first trip to Chicago this past weekend to visit the Hazens - Lisa, Shawn, and baby Finn. (Yes, note that they each have their own website!) They've been in Chicago for 5 months and really seem to be enjoying it. In just over 48 hours - including travel time - we took an architectural boat tour of the city, drove through several neighborhoods, visited the Art Institute, and had dinner with Samira and Alex, who also just moved to the area. Plus watched teletubbies with Finn and explored his new neighborhood. Phew! Next time we'll stay a bit longer. We had a great time, though.

Finn eating

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Notice the slight blur to the image - it gives a good sense of just how active Finn is.

Adam on Michigan Avenue

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More from the Chicago Boat Tour

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Lisa on the boat tour

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View from the boat tour

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August 2006 Book Reviews

I often find it difficult to give up on a book - I keep hoping it will get better. Recently I've set a 100 page limit; I allow myself to stop reading if I'm not enjoying the material by then. August was full of books I was unable to finish. Here's what I did get through:

1. March, Geraldine Brooks, Rating: 3.7
Smart and interesting, as a Pulitzer Prize-winning novel should be. My main quibble is that I didn't like the character of Mr. March at all - I found him rather repulsive. That's just me, though, others might really enjoy him. Brooks has an informative, succinct endnote of what's fact and what's fiction in her work that I found very interesting.
2. Comfort Me with Apples, Ruth Reichl, Rating: 4.2
Reichl is certainly one of my favorite food writers, and I find the candor with which she writes about her life fascinating. This book goes into rather explicit detail about the affairs she had in the 1980s. It's really fun in a voyeristic way, but her total lack of concern about how her husband would feel just comes off as odd. She doesn't seem cold otherwise; I suspect she's not being totally honest about how she really felt at the time.
3. Blessings, Anna Quindlen, Rating: 3.5
I think this is the first book I've read by Quindlen - it was fairly forgetable but passed the time well.
4. Tender is the Night, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Rating: 4.3
Fascinating and compelling. It reads like two different novels (the point of view of the narrator changes midway through). The writing is beautiful, the plot bizarre at times. Well worth reading.
5. Middlesex, Jeffrey Eugenides, Rating: 4.7
I recently loaned this book to Adam, who devoured it. I think it was one of his favorite books ever. He was so enthusiastic about it that I was jealous, and found myself reading it whenever he left it at the house. It's really an incredible work, with a really odd plot that sucks you in immediately. I appreciated the quality of the writing more this time - he's snuck in some quite clever jokes and phrases.
6. A Moveable Feast, Ernest Hemingway, Rating: 4.1
While not on the level of his novels, this book is a lot of fun. It's all about Hemingway's early years in Paris, and the people he knew (all famous, of course). It's really gossipy - like reading US Weekly without the pictures.
7. Fables, Volume 7, Rating: 4.0
I've written about this series before. I'll just say that it's one of the best comic books out there and you're really missing out if you're not reading it.

Friends' Babies

I just realized how long it has been since I posted pictures of my friends kids. I think it's because I feel like I get to see many of them so often, thanks to the diligent blogging of their parents. Here's Sophie, the budding artist.

You can follow the almost daily exploits of several more here:
Finn Hazen, his cousin Anna, and his future prom date Fiona.

July 2006 Book Reviews

I would be hard to top last month's selection; I did however finish several of the books on my to-do list. Next month, less contemporary fiction, more classics.

1. Matters of Chance, Jeannette Haien, Rating: 4.6
Wonderful, timeless love story . Or really, a series of romances. I was really surprised to discover that this came out in 1997--it has the feel of a much older story. Character development is superb.
2. The Moon and Sixpence, W. Somerset Maugham, Rating: 3.2
A fictionalized account of Paul Gauguin's life (according to wikipedia, just how fictionalized isn't entirely known), this is an interesting, if not entirely engaging, character study. I liked it enough to read more of Maugham's books, but found the narrative tedious at times.
3. Eat, Pray, Love, Elizabeth Gilbert, Rating: 2.9
Interesting concept - a woman's life completely falls apart (divorce, depression, bad love affair) - and after wallowing for several years, she decides to spend a year traveling to three countries that specialize in the things that matter most to her. Pleasure is the first section (to experience this, she travels to Italy, a wise choice). Later destinations are India and Indonesia. Some of the writing is fun; a lot of it is boring and of the "why am I reading this?" variety. She's incredibly self-absorbed and self-serving - it should be a major tip-off that she sold the book rights before beginning her travels.
4. A Woman in Berlin, Anonymous, Rating: 4.0
Recently reissued in America after decades of out-of-print status, this is the supposed true diary of a civilian woman living in Berlin during the siege and fall of the city at the end of WWII. The writer claims to be a professional writer by trade, which perhaps explains the polished prose. She exhibits an amazing sense of humor in the face of truly awful events. This is a fascinating book and one well worth reading.
5. The All of It, Jeannette Haien, Rating: 3.0
Haien's first book, this novella lacks the epic scope and effectiveness of Matters of Chance. While it's fine, I surprised it ever found a publisher - it's much more suited to a literary journal.
6. The Last Gentleman Adventurer: Coming of Age in the Arctic, Edward Beauclerk Maurice, Rating: 4.2
Published just before his death, this is a snapshot of several of the years - beginning in 1930 - that Maurice spent in remote Canada working for the Hudson Bay Company. Left alone with the local population for the majority of the time, he writes of learning to speak the local language, dogsledding for days to bring food to a starving camp, hunting and caring for the entire camp during a flu outbreak, and much more. It's thoughtfully done, a careful portrait of an extremely unique experience.
7. Money: A Memoir, Liz Perle, Rating: 3.5
This book is exactly what it claims to be: a memoir. It's about her relationship to money, with a few supporting examples from other women. It's interesting because of Perle's candor, but I expected more - advice, pitfalls to avoid, something else. Ultimately, I guess that wasn't the point of the book.
8. The Kite Runner, Khaled Hosseini, Rating: 3.1
I listened to this as a book on tape, which really didn't do the book any favors. Read by the author, the audio form calls attention to how repetitive the narration is, and drives home the fact that there are still hours to go before reaching the incredibly predictable conclusion. A sensitive, light-handed ending is perhaps the book's one saving grace.
9. Labyrinth, Kate Mosse, Rating: 2.9
A throw-away summer read. Among its strongest attributes is the lovely attention to geographic details. The characters and plot receive less attention.

Los Angeles

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Adam and I successfully survived our last trip of July - this time to Los Angeles. It was perfect: a day with his friend Karl, a day with several of my friends, several hours on the beach, lots of good food, and two celebrity sightings. The big one was Gwen Stefani + baby and husband. Of lesser wow-value was Paul Rudd, but still totally cool for all of you Clueless fans.

As much as I want to like LA (and this isn't to say that I didn't have a good time there), the traffic, haze, and people are just to much for me. Everywhere is an hour away - even if it's only 10 miles from your house. I just don't think I could handle it on a daily basis.

A Tired Elephant Seal

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It's Adam's birthday tomorrow (29th). I'm baking him a ham - his request - and we plan to have a few people over. I took him away last weekend instead of buying a present (he takes a perverse pride in being hard to shop for), and we both had a wonderful time.

This pour tired lump is an Elephant Seal. We missed mating season by about 6 months, but apparently July is a good time to witness males molting. The ranger said the seals have to dry out a bit to be able to shed their skin. Elephant seals clearer aren't made to move on land - this guy would throw his weight forward, collapse, snort, then throw again.

Other fascinating facts:
- a female can keep a pregnancy dormant until she has enough body fat to support the gestational period.
- only 5% of males will ever mate.
- in the 1880s, there were believed to be only 50 surviving elephant seals. There are now 80,000.
- elephant seals swim to Hawaii (or thereabouts) annually. They can dive to a depth of 5000 feet.
- they don't sleep, but are capable of lowering their heartrate to a "resting" state.

Less fascinating:
- the call of a male sounds like a "sewer grate opening" (not my phrase), and you can smell them 1/2 mile away.

We plan to make another trip in January to see mating season - it's supposed to be wild. More info for the curious here.

A pond at Ano Nuevo State Park

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